Just One of These a Day Can Keep Anxiety and Stress at Bay

We are often told that happiness comes from within but decades of research points us in a different direction. Accumulating evidence shows that happiness comes...

Five Steps to Transform Ill-Will into Good-Will

“Not forgiving is like drinking rat poison and then waiting for the rat to die.” — Anne Lamott, Traveling Mercies: Some Thoughts on Faith Last week I wrote...

How to Apologize and Why It Matters

“If it means so much to you, then … sorry.” Logan Roy’s apology to his children in episode 2 of the fourth season of Succession...

The Secret to Waking up Alert and Refreshe

“Until I’m 6 feet under Baby I don’t need a bed Gonna live while I’m alive I’ll sleep when I’m dead.” — Jon Bon Jovi With all due respect...

High Quality Comforting — 3 Ways to Support the Ones You Love

“In a relationship, each person should support the other; they should lift each other up,” says the ever-enlightened Taylor Swift. Of course, elevating and...

Is Decentering the Key for Feeling Centered?

When I meet a patient for the first time, I always ask about what they hope to achieve in therapy. Of course, therapy is...