Are You Good Company?

There are some people we naturally love to be around. They are like sunspots, giving off warmth and radiating good energy. There are others we avoid like the plague. They suck the energy out of room and make us feel self-conscious and insecure.

I wish you all the best,

Dr. Samantha Boardman

What a Bucket of Popcorn Says About You

In the un-put-downable book Switch: How to Change Things When Change is Hard, the authors describe a famous popcorn study. Moviegoers were given a soda and a free bucket of popcorn on their way to see a 1:05 matinee of Mel Gibson’s Payback in 2000. They were handed either a medium size bucket or a large bucket—as the authors describe, looked like “the sort of tub that had once been an above-ground swimming pool.”

Unbeknownst to the moviegoers, the popcorn was stale. It was intentionally nasty— it had been popped five days earlier and was so stale that it “squeaked when you ate it.”

The researchers were exploring whether people with the bigger buckets would eat more popcorn. To precisely measure how much people ate, they weighed the buckets before and after the movie. The results shocked them: those with the large buckets ate 53 percent more popcorn than those with the medium size buckets. They quote the author of the study, highlighting how across the board, a bigger bucket leads to more eating:

We’ve run other popcorn studies, and the results are always the same, however we tweaked the details. It didn’t matter if our moviegoers were in Pennsylvania, Illinois, or Iowa, and it didn’t matter what kind of movie was showing; all of our popcorn studies led to the same conclusion. People eat more when you give them a bigger container. Period.

This research has implications for public health. As this study shows, people eat out of habit regardless of whether the popcorn tastes like Styrofoam peanuts. So rather than trying to educate them about switching habits or encouraging them to adopt better-snacking behaviors, there is a simple solution. Give them smaller buckets.

As the authors conclude:

What looks like a people problem is often a situation problem.

Bottom line:  Keep this in mind next time you are trying to make a small or big change.

I wish you all the best,

Dr. Samantha Boardman

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25 Ways to Celebrate Kindness

According to Nobel Prize-winning scientist Daniel Kahneman, we experience approximately 20,000 moments each day. In honor of #RandomActsOfKindnessDay choose to make the most of each one by seizing the many opportunities to be kind, make an effort, connect, and give back.

  1. Pay a coworker an honest compliment.

2. Strike up a conversation with someone you see everyday but don’t know very well – a doorman, the postman, a neighbor, the barista.

3. Buy a coffee for the person in line behind you at the coffee shop.

4. Send flowers for no reason.

5. Offer to run an errand for a friend.

6. Hold the elevator.

7. Give your cab away.

8. Leave an extra big tip.

9. Hold the door.

10. Leave change in the vending machine.

11. Text a friend to tell them how and why you admire them.

12. Tell a stranger that you love what they’re wearing.

13. Make a playlist on Spotify for a friend who’s going through it.

14. Pick up some litter.

15. Write something nice on that person’s updates who posts on Facebook constantly. They’re probably lonely.

16. Put sticky notes with positive slogans on the mirrors in restrooms.

17. Bring your partner coffee in bed tomorrow.

18. Do a chore for someone without them knowing.

19. Leave happy notes around town.

20. Let someone go ahead of you inline.

21. Leave heads up pennies on the sidewalk.

22. Smile at everyone.

23. Email or write an old teacher who made a difference in your life.

24. Smile at someone on the street, just because.

25. Give up your seat to someone (anyone!) on the bus or subway.

Act as if what you do makes a difference. It does. -William Jam

I wish you all the best,

Dr. Samantha Boardman

What Would Future You Think?

“What do you want to be when you grow up?” is a question we ask children all the time. It asks them to think beyond the here and now and to imagine themselves in the future. However, imagining oneself 20 years from now is not something we as adults routinely do. According to research, perhaps it should be. Catching a glimpse of your future self may be an effective motivation strategy to changing behavior in positive ways.

Participants in a study were shown digitally altered images of themselves made to look their grandparents age—about 70 years old – while a control group was shown a current image of themselves. Each group was then presented with questions about finances and retirement. Those who had been presented with the image of their older self—wrinkles, jowls and receding hairlines and all—were willing to put twice as much money into long term savings accounts than those presented with a current image of themselves.

In a related study, participants were asked to connect to their future self in a different way: by taking five minutes to write a short letter to the person they will be 20 years from now. Instructions included: “Write about the person you are now, which topics are important and dear to you, and how you see your life.”  A control group was given the same instructions except the recipient would be them only three months down the road. Each group was then presented with various hypothetical scenarios designed to assess ethical decision-making. For example, would you buy a computer that “fell off a truck?” The group that had written letters to their distant future selves were less likely to engage in deceitful or delinquent behavior.

These studies have practical implications for the real world. By connecting people to the person they will be at age 70 in a concrete way, it is more likely they will make better decisions in the here and now. Some suggest putting visual renderings of a person’s aged face on credit cards and at cash machines to encourage smart spending. Binge eating, substance abuse and other impulse behaviors could also be affected by considering one’s future self. Even crime researchers recognize it is a tool to encourage first offenders to think about consequences of their actions and to deter crime in general.

Behavior today impacts the person you will become in the future. You Only Live Once, or YOLO, may be the current cultural refrain, but long-term thinking is essential for the well-being of individuals and society.

Next time you are about to do something impulsive stop and ask, “What would your future self think?” Another option is to download AgingBooth, an app that digitally ages photos of users. The photos are simultaneously hilarious and terrifying. I promise you one thing: seeing the wrinkles that await you will make you reconsider the rare social cigarette.

I wish you all the best,

Dr. Samantha Boardman