Do You Spend Most of the Day Sitting?

I go from my desk, to my sofa, to my bed. Repeat.” This is my patient’s description of her daily routine.

With fewer reasons to leave the house, people are spending an unprecedented amount of time on their butts. Before you say, “My body is a templeI work out every day,” know this: even if you do manage to exercise for an hour a day, research shows it doesn’t fully undo the dangers of extended sitting.

Over half of remote workers report sitting for almost three hours longer each day than they used to when they worked in an office. Occasions for “incidental ambulation”—such as a stroll down the hall for a meeting or to ask a co-worker a question have evaporated. Now accustomed to at-home delivery of pretty much everything, there are fewer errands to run. Why go to Starbucks if the latte can be brought to your door?

All this sitting is unhealthy, increasing the risk of heart disease, diabetes, and cancer. In 2012 I-Min Lee, an epidemiologist at Harvard University, published a landmark paper in The Lancet showing that prolonged periods of inactivity kill more than 5 million people every year globally, making the health risks similar to smoking and obesity.

Spending the majority on one’s time immersed in low-energy activities like watching TV, working at a computer, and playing videogames has adverse psychological effects too. Reductions in physical activity and increased sitting time contribute to the worsening depression and anxiety in the wake of COVID-19.

To be fair, the problem isn’t sitting per se. It’s how we sit. The Hadza hunter-gatherer people of Tanzania sit for up 10 hours a day but unlike us, they avoid the dangers of inactivity. Why? Because they’re not sitting on their bottoms in a comfy chair or reclining on a sofa, remote control in hand. The Hadza squat, kneel, and sit on the ground in various “active resting” positions that require them to use their muscles. But when we sit, we recline in comfortable, supportive chairs with high backs and armrests. Our chairs don’t require any muscle engagement or effort at all.

“The problem with chairs and beds is they allow us to turn our muscles off and sag into cushions.”

Instead of sagging into cushions, here is what you can do:

1. Sit in “active resting” positions. Consider getting an inflatable ball for sitting at your desk. During leisure time, sit on the floor sometimes. If you cannot resist reclining, be sure to stand up regularly and stretch your legs.

2. Add more incidental ambulation to each day. Schedule a casual stroll around the block at lunchtime. Meander down the hall at the end of each hour. Turn phone calls into walking opportunities. No need to break a sweat or put on sneakers. Studies show that just putting one foot in front of the other for ten minutes can brighten your mood.

3. If you’re reading this sitting down, stand up, and take a walk.

I wish you all the best,

Dr. Samantha Boardman

Here Is One Thing You Can Do Right Now to Reduce Stress and Boost Your Mood

What is something you already do more than 20,000 times a day that could help you feel calmer and more vital if you did it more deliberately?

Answer: Breathe.

Most of us don’t pay much attention to how we breathe because it happens automatically. We don’t have to think about it. It’s only when we’re out of breath or when our partners wake us up in the middle of the night because we’re snoring so loudly that the act of breathing gets our attention.

The reality is that most of us are breathing all wrong—with our mouths open and without any intention or awareness, according to James Nestor, author of the fascinating book, BreathMouth breathing, he explains, undermines health and our ability to manage stress. In addition to limiting the amount of oxygen we draw into our lungs, breathing through the mouth instead of the nose contributes to periodontal disease (it is the number one cause of cavities, more damaging than sugar) bad breath, high blood pressure, and also worsens snoring and sleep apnea.

Sometimes when we’re preoccupied or multi-tasking we forget to breathe. A survey found that 80 percent of us hold our breath or breathe shallowly when reading and responding to emails or texts. Writer Linda Stone calls this “email apnea” though “screen apnea” might be a better term for it because it also occurs when we’re scrolling through social media, watching the news, and checking Twitter. It’s highly likely that you’re holding your breath as you read this.

Being more deliberate about how you breathe has immeasurable benefits for mental and physical health. Even slight adjustments to the way you inhale and exhale can transform your mood, focus, perception of stress, and energy level. Over the long term, how you breathe impacts weight, sleep, anxiety, and cardiovascular health. Nestor shows how breathing correctly can even improve appearance by adding definition to your jawline (think Maria Shriver) and eliminating sagging jowls. Indeed, there are many reasons to pay attention to this unappreciated and undervalued bodily function.

Here is my favorite breathing exercise. It’s so simple. No fancy equipment, clothing, or accessories needed. The best part is you can do it right now:

1. Sit up straight

2. Relax your shoulders

3. Close your mouth

4. Inhale softly through your nose for 5.5 seconds, expanding the belly

5. Exhale softly for 5.5 seconds through your nose, bringing the belly in as the lungs empty


Each breath should feel like a wave washing over you and receding back into the ocean.

Repeat 10 times.

Bottom Line: Avoid mouth-breathing as much as you can. Make a conscious effort to breathe slowly and through the nose with long exhales.

I wish you all the best,

Dr. Samantha Boardman

Alisha Ramos

Alisha Ramos is the founder of the weekly newsletter, Girls’ Night In. Girls’ Night In was built on the belief that as our lives get busier, it is important to take a break and cultivate friendships, a crucial part of what wellness means for people.

Are You a Voter?

An interesting study found that people who were asked the question: “How important is it to you to be a voter in the upcoming election?” were more likely to vote than people who were asked, “How important is it to you to vote in the upcoming election?”

How could a small change in wording make a big difference in voter turnout?

The researchers theorize that viewing voting as part of your identity (e.g., “I am a voter”), rather than a behavior to be enacted, increased motivation to vote. The study concluded that people want to be consistent with their values and sense of self.

Along these lines, a study found that kids who think of themselves as “carrot eaters” liked carrots more than kids who said, “I eat carrots whenever I can.” Adults who described themselves as “book-readers” rated their own preference for reading as stronger and more stable than those who said, “I read books a lot.”

Language can motivate behavior. Using a noun to describe yourself and that connects to your sense of self seems to have more power than using a related verb that describes something you do. So if you want to engage in a behavior, make it an extension of who you are. Saying, “I am a healthy eater” will likely help you make better choices than saying, “I am someone who eats healthy.”

Parents, keep this in mind when talking to your kids. Thank your child for being “a helper around the house” as opposed to, “helping around the house.” I tell my kids they are “dog-walkers”, not “kids who walk dogs.” 🙂

I wish you all the best,

Dr. Samantha Boardman

Eliza Blank

Eliza Blank is the Founder & CEO at The Sill, a digitally native direct-to-consumer houseplant brand on a mission to modernize the garden center experience. Find out how she empowers “plant parents” and why water is her pet peeve.

What Does Your Favorite Ice Cream Flavor Say About You?

A survey commissioned by Breyers’ ice cream found that your favorite flavor of ice cream gives the scoop on your personality.

Researchers find strawberry lovers are usually the first to find love. On average, strawberry ice cream fans find love at age 24. For vanilla lovers, it’s 25, while chocolate fans are a year later at 26.

The survey also says strawberry lovers tend to love doing laundry, watching sci-fi movies, and listening to jazz music.

Chocolate lovers are the extroverts of the ice cream eating world. The poll finds they tend to watch a lot of romantic comedies, so maybe it takes longer to find a partner like the ones in their favorite films. Chocolate fans usually love pop music, R&B, and rock ‘n roll.

The personalities of vanilla lovers aren’t too “vanilla” after all. They’re pretty risky when it comes to a game of “truth-or-dare” and are more likely to choose dare. Researchers add they like to stay up late at night, like dogs more than cats and prefer washing dishes to laundry. Overall however, vanilla fans are said to be fairly introverted people.

I wish you all the best,

Dr. Samantha Boardman