I Want It And I Want It Now
Patience may be a virtue but it’s wearing thin. A study of over 2000 British adults confirmed what most of us already know, we...
Don’t Let Stress Interfere With Gut Feelings
Listening to your gut when you’re anxious is like going to the supermarket on an empty stomach. Your judgment is clouded so you end...
How to Cool Down in the Heat of the Moment
In the heat of the moment, one of the worst things to do is what people normally do--immerse themselves in their emotions and focus...
Dress Rehearsal of the Mind: How to Overcome Anxiety & Build Confidence
I have always been a little skeptical of visualization techniques. The idea of telling someone to visualize winning the lottery, marrying George Clooney or...
Is It Too Late For Change?
“People don’t change.” I remember hearing this from one of my professors in medical school. His comment went hand in hand with everything I...
Achieve the Impossible
What makes human beings unique? In an unforgettable speech to a Stanford graduating class, neuroscientist Robert Sapolsky explores this question and challenges what many...
Does Your Weekend Exhaust You?
Do you feel exhausted after the weekend? The allure of pleasant, in the moment, and easy activities is powerful. After a long week, it’s...
The Hidden Force of Fragrance
Thanks to a growing body of research, scientists are gaining a better understanding of the link between smell, emotion and wellbeing. Faces appear more...
How To Take Criticism Like A Pro
We humans are really good at dwelling on stuff that make us feel bad. This negativity bias was helpful to our ancestors when survival...
Can You Force Someone To Be Healthier?
In wellness, there’s no one-size-fits-all regimen. In fact, the first step on the path to a better, healthier, happier life, is choice.
In a classic...
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Collective Effervescence: Why Shared Experiences Are Good for the Soul
New York is a city of strong opinions and limited patience. That is what made this month so strange. The Knicks championship win brought...
What if We Have a Perception Problem, Not a Kindness Problem?
During the Boston Marathon, a runner named Ajay Haridasse collapsed about 1,000 feet from the finish line. Four times he tried to get up...
“You” Is Not a Pronoun. It’s a Verb.
As a psychiatrist, I spend a surprising amount of time helping people unlearn things.
Not because they aren’t smart or capable, but because many of...
Fear of Saying the Wrong Thing Is Killing Conversation
I almost missed it. I was in a taxi on my way to the airport in the Bahamas, phone in hand, the familiar gravity...
The Overview Effect: What We Can Learn From Astronauts About the Importance of Feeling...
We live in a world that tells us the goal is to be larger than life. But what if we’re missing out on the...
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