You Aren’t The Only One With Duck Syndrome
A duck appears to glide calmly across the water, while beneath the surface it’s an entirely different picture: The duck is frantically paddling its...
Aging Without Raging: The Secret Sauce of Longevity
I have a January birthday so aging is on my mind. There is a lot of advice out there about how to live long...
Ask ‘What’s Strong’ Not ‘What’s Wrong’
The types of questions we ask so often determine the answers we find. Using a flashlight analogy, we have a choice about where we...
Goblin Mode: The Antidote for Perfectionism
So the Word of the Year is goblin mode. According to the Oxford English Dictionary, the selection is “a word or expression reflecting the ethos, mood, or...
Why We Need More Failure, Not Less
People keep asking me about “Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria” or RSD. They’re convinced that they or someone they know has it. The term describes emotional pain triggered...
If You Want to Sound Smart, Dont Send an Email
It might seem old-fashioned, but if you want to get something done or make a good impression, pick up the phone. Better yet, say...